Good time
生活 (m-life) February 27th, 2007
It’s late at night and I know I shouldn’t stay up too late, but I just wanted to say THANK YOU to those who are here reading this post, those who celebrated with me, and those who thought about me… Feb 22 was my birthday and my lunar birthday felt on Feb 24 this year. During the past two weeks or so, we had the V Day, the Chinese New Year, and Marz’s birthdays (obviously they are as important as other cultural holidays :p). Just like in the previous 20+ years, I’m getting a mixed-fruit cake from my Daddy this year (and I hope I can continue to get the cake from him in the future). The simplist cake with the warmest wishes. None of us are good at expressing our care/feelings towards each other, but I could feel it via the tasty piece of cake. That night, we ordered take-out instead of dining out since it was cold and I was lazy and tired.
Interestingly, this year, we have 4 birthday boy/gals in the office in February. Feb 9, 22, 22, 27. Therefore we took the average and had a celebration on Feb 20. It was a fun day. Without bosses’ presence, we were like kids in kindergarten having a monthly birthday party. I will treasure these moments and keep them with me.

Homemade blueberry cheesecake - by our colleague KL

Look at all the snacks we had! Thx for the pillow… it’s great for napping at desk.
Also had an unexpected early celebration with TW. Thanks for remembering, inviting me to dinner and the gift. Hope your fridge will work well.
Enjoyed a relaxing night with RL. Encountered the first bump on the road. Thanks for everything. I really like the food encyclopedia.
On Saturday, celebrated with friends in a different way. Instead of the usual K and dinner, we went for indoor beach volleyball @ Beach Blast. Although some of us (e.g. me) don’t even know how to play, it was fun (and funny). I’m glad that they enjoyed it. Gotta thank JW for this great idea. It’s definitely one of the most memorable birthday activities that I’ve done - besides one time that I was wasted @ K (-_-|||) It’s all good.
To wrap everything up nicely… we went to the Living the Dream concert held by Across U-Hub. I have to say it was one of the most inspiring events that I’ve been to in the past few years. Originally, I was there just to support my friend, who was the director of the show. But when I walked out of the concert, I felt replenished, and I was refueled to pursue my dreams (or… to dream) again. Another surprise was that singer Emil Chau (周華健) popped in the charity concert to support the youth. It was my first time seeing him in person. Although it was a short appearence, I could feel his passion about music and I respect his view of life. He talked about the reason for his “disappearance”. It was because he encountered his first bottleneck. Instead of forcing himself to keep releasing album, he looked at it in a positive way. He took a break from music and eventually when he felt he could compose again, he went back to it. That’s the way we should treat our lives. I think that’s essentially the same as what EL said, “let the game comes to you”. Life is full of surprises and that’s what make it lively.
Song Demos on the web
Concert Trailer on Youtube
Again, thanks everyone for everything. I’m fortunate to have all of you as my friends and family.
轉載: 懂得放下
有感 (m-thoughts) February 22nd, 2007
Today’s a special day! Thanks everyone
記住 anger ( 發怒 ) 與 danger ( 危險) 只差一個字
別看少這一個字
它會影響我們這份職業、甚至人際關係
正所謂「禍從口出…」
專家講:
「人,面對外人時,總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和,但面對自己最親近的家人,卻往往一點小事就足以皺起眉頭, 甚至出言相傷。」
正如你永遠只對你最愛、最親的人生氣
你會對住你上司、老板生氣嗎 ?
如果形容人類是一種「出門高E.Q ,回家低E.Q 」的動物,我想一點兒也不誇張,多拿出一點耐心與包容給家人吧!否則您自己也不會快樂,不是嗎?曾在報上看過英文中的stressed (壓力),與desserts (甜點)兩字,有很微妙的相關。是什麼相關呢?仔細一瞧,好像沒什麼關係嘛!可是,再看一下,咦,stressed 這個字從後面倒過來拼寫,不就是 desserts 嗎?所以,「Stressed is just desserts if you can reverse. 」
(壓力就是甜點,只要你能逆向觀看。)
哈,這真是有趣的妙論呀!人生之中,有許多「壓力、挫折」,但只要轉個念、換個角度看,它也就是我們生命中的「甜點」呀!
此外,也有人說:
「人生就像一碗飯,一半是甜的,一半是苦的,你不知道會先吃到哪一邊,但終究必須把飯吃完。」
是呀,生命有甜、有苦、有酸、也有辣;但都必須去經歷它、走過它呀!
有一個小學老師在偏遠的鄉里教書,這天,他來到自己班上的教室,問班上的小朋友:「你們大家有沒有討厭的人啊」
小朋友們想了想,有的未作聲,有的則猛力地點點頭。
老師接著便發給每人一個袋子,說:「我們來玩一個遊戲。現在大家想想看,過去這一週,曾有那些人得罪過你他到底做了怎麼樣可惡的事想到後,就利用放學時間到河邊去找一塊石頭,把他的名字給 用小紙條貼在石頭上如果他實在很過份,你就找一塊大一點的石頭,如果他的錯是小錯,你就找一塊小一點的石頭。每天把戰利品用袋子裝到學校來給老師看哦!」
學生們感到非常有趣且新鮮,放學後,每個人都搶著到河邊去找石頭。第二天一早,大家都把裝著從河邊撿來的鵝卵石的袋子帶到學校來,興高采烈地討論著。一天過去了,兩天過去了,三天過去了… .. ,有的人的袋子越裝越大,幾乎成了負擔。終於,有人提出了抗議「老師,好累喔」老師笑了笑沒說話,立刻又有人接著喊:「對啊每天背著這些石頭來上課,好累喔」
這時,老師終於開口了,她笑著說:「那就放下這些代表著別人過犯的石頭吧」
孩子們有些訝異,老師又接著講:「學習寬恕別人的過犯,不要把它當寶一樣的記在心上,扛在肩上,時間久了,任誰也受不了…」
這個星期,這班的同學上到了人生中極寶貴的一課。
袋裡裝入越多、越大的「石頭」,心中存留越多、越深的仇恨,所造成的負擔就越重。假如你有寫上我名字的石頭你知怎樣做…感謝主
我很喜歡一句名諺:「寬恕人的過失,便是自己的榮耀。」
懂得「放下」,何等自在。
請傳閱,或許今天正有人需要它!
相愛容易相處難,婚姻與戀愛最大的不同,就是「戀愛看的是對方的優點」,而「婚姻卻是要包容對方的缺點」。
Made with … 緣份是找到包容你的人。
Search Engine 的過去
有感 (m-thoughts) February 22nd, 2007
回應朋友Sandra在她的部落格上的話題。 我很同意她的話。很多時候,要了解一個人,很好的途徑是看他/她寫的東西。人與人日常的交往,很多時候會受到外在因素的影響,包括對方的身份。如果對方是你的老闆,你總不會甚麼都跟他/她講吧。人生旅途上,會碰到很多人。不同時間,不同地方,會遇到不同的人。有一些,你知道就算是到了天涯海角,你們都會是好朋友;可能不會常常來電,但一碰面就還是會很click、很能交流;發生甚麼事情,大家都會兩脅插刀。有一些是每天見面,比如同事。每天八九個小時, 見他們比見家人多,還好大家還算好相處。但同事之間還是有一道無形的牆,工作還是工作;可能變了舊同事反而會是好朋友。有一些,是活動的伴,唱歌出外會一 起玩,聊心事就不一定會。有一些,是純互利互惠的朋友,但我沒有很多這種朋友。還有的是,看像過客,但某程度上,你跟他/她談的話題可以很深入-因為沒有利害衝突、也沒有共同的朋友。要細分的話,還有很多種。
說說就好像快要離題,以作文來說,一定不能拿高分。
回到搜尋引擎(Search Engine)的故事。很久以前,曾經無聊的在網上搜尋自己的化名,電郵,結果有點出乎意料之外。沒想到一個化名會可以帶出那麼多塊的拼圖,拼湊成一面面的過去。互聯網的力量有點可怕。也是的,本來說每一句話都應該是要思考過才講的,在網上也是一樣,不要以為自己只是對著電腦自說自話,只要是在網上的,就等於是公告天下。所以要小心。不想給人家知道的就不要打出來。曾經聽過一件事:一位女士劈腿(一腳踏兩船),然後把自己劈腿的事放在部落格上,最後(她沒 想到自己的男友會看到),男友把她甩了。有時候,事情悶在心裡會不舒服,但不小心就透露了一些不應該說的事,可能會有後果的。私人的資料更不在話下了。有心人要找,一定會找到。
Unacceptable customer service @ ICICI Bank
生活 (m-life) February 21st, 2007
First of all, those who know me should know that I’m not a bad temper person nor can I get angry easily. BUT today, ICICI bank really pushed me to the limit. I have been a customer of this bank since 2005. Originally I opened a Savings account because of their high interest rate. After about a year or so, I got an letter from them saying that there would be two types of savings account HISave account versus premium savings account. The difference would be that the HISave account would be solely online - all transactions have to be conducted via the net. I was fine with that. I thought mine would be the HISave account until one day I checked online agained and actually it was Premium Savings account. The instruction was definitely not clear on the letter that they sent out. That was OK since it might be also because I overlooked something.
Then, one day, I tried to login my account and found that I need the CIF (Customer Identification Number). I wondered what the hell was going on. Usually, we could just login with the client card number. Why would they change that? Did someone hack into their system? I don’t mind logging in with CIF number but the problem is that I have only seen the CIF number on the sheet of paper that they gave to me when I first opened my account. If you have thrown that away, too bad, you would have to call them to get your CIF number. AND on the website they stated that because of this change, you should expect longer than usual wait (not exactly how it was phrased but that’s the meaning).
OK, so I could login. Despite the fact that their UI (user interface) sucks, very NOT user-friendly, as long as I can transfer money, it is still OK.
One day, I decided to move money out of the account. And I saw something like this…
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Dear Valued Customer:
We request you to verify the details of your external account registered with ICICI Bank Canada. If you notice a discrepancy in the information such as external account number or currency of the external account, please write to us using the “Communication” option available on the left panel. Please include the following information:
External Bank Name
External Bank transit ID
External Bank account number
Currency of your external account
Please allow us 4 business days to update your account profile with the updated information. We thank you for your cooperation.
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I hesitated and thought… should I verify my account even though it looked correct and I had been successfully moving my money before? So, to be on the safe side, I contacted them and verified the bank account info, but I never heard back from them. After about 4 days…Ya, I thought, it’s a bank and they should not let anything happen to this. So, I transferred a small amount. Three days have passed and I still didn’t see my money in my external account. Humm…. I waited til the fifth business day (since that was the max. time it would take to transfer money - as stated on their website), and I called them. They said they would look into that.
After about a week, I was determined to close my accounts with ICICI. So, I gave them a call and told them about my dissatisfaction and frustration and my decision of closing my account. The rep was a bit freaked out and he tried to explain to me that the bank was having a major system change/upgrade and that was why I was experiencing problem. However, he attempt was not a success. I don’t care about all the features that they would be adding to the website interface. The bottom line is that I can see my money and move my money. Agree? Yes. So, now that I’ve transferred my money out of the acocunt - it’s not showing up in the ICICI interface anymore, but I’m not getting the money in my external account. What happened?! What the hell did the money go? So, he passed the phone to his supervisor. They were asking me to give ICICI bank another chance since they are a relatively young bank in Canada. NO excuse! Anyhow, I was finally persuaded not to close the account because the supervisor agreed to take care of the transfer of the remaining balance to my external account. I received that portion in my external account after 3 days.
Today I called again since I’m not seeing the first “small portion of $” that I’ve transferred on Feb 2 (18 days ago!). Guess what that rep said? He told me that the problem has been passed on to the operation team and they are currently looking into it. A lot of other customers are also experiencing the same problem. (OMFG!) I asked when I should be able to see my money in my external account, and he couldn’t answer my question. Finally, after pushing and squeezing him, he gave me an answer - if I still don’t see it in external account after 4 days, give them a call.
It’s been a total waste of my time - each phone call took about at least 20 min. and the problem never got resolved. I’m glad that I didn’t transfer all my money or else I’d be in trouble. Where the hell is my money?! And, what if I need that money right now? How are they gonna be responsible for the costs/loss incurred?
I wonder what/if the bank would react if they see this post? Will they ever improve/change? Will their IT team get frustrated and hack into this blog and wipe everything out? I don’t know. I just wanted to share my experience with you and also vent. argh!
Position Openings
錦囊 (m-tips) February 20th, 2007
Here’s the last chance to apply since the recruiting process is going to wrap up very soon.
Feel free to apply or to forward this to your friend:
(1) Software Quality Assurance
Location: Richmond Hill, Ontario
Number of Positions: 1
Compensation: To be negotiated
Compensation Type: per Year
Area: Toronto
Position Duration: Full-time, Permanent
Position Start Date: Immediately
Position Description: The candidate must have the personality of a QA person and have the basic knowledge of JavaScript, VB Script, ASP, .NET, XML and SQL. The successful candidate will work closely with the programmer to perform repetitive testing and ensuring the quality throughout the online survey development life cycle in a fast-paced and tight schedule environment.
Industry: Market Research
Method of Application:
• Resume and covering letter
• In Word format
• Email: rshum@onsurvey.ca
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(2) Research Analyst
The Research Analyst will provide support to Research Project Manager. It is an excellent opportunity to start in a position that can provide upward mobility into a project management. This position is suitable for someone relatively new to the workforce or a recent university graduate. Compensation includes salary, bonus and benefits.
Responsibilities:
Assist in all aspects of research studies with regards to:
- Questionnaire revisions
- Relationship with external suppliers and/or clients where applicable
- Sample preparation within client defined parameters
- Statistical analysis, including but not limited to frequencies, crosstabs, regression analysis, on collected data
- Interpret results and apply practical meaning to research results in support of internal clients
- Report writing
Requirements:
- University degree: Master of Arts preferred, or Undergraduate degree in Business or Arts
- Must possess strong organizational skills, attention to details, good writing and editing skills
- Strong critical thinking and analytical skills
- Self-starter
- Ability to set priorities and multi-task
- Strong MS Office abilities
- Knowledge of SPSS is preferred
- Previous entry level research experience is an asset but not required
How to Apply:
Email your covering letter and CV to careers@onsurvey.ca. In order to best route your resume, please specify the job title you are applying for in the subject line.




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